Every year for the past 2000 Jews all over the world
celebrate Passover by gathering for a ceremonial meal. We tell our children the
story of how we were slaves in Egypt.
Why would a group of people remember their trauma in this way? Most
people would prefer not to remember a past like that. We can see in our own
American experience how the memory of slavery can itself be traumatizing, to have been a slave or have ancestors who
were slaves brings for many reactions of shame. It raises uncomfortable questions
such as, Why did our ancestors allow
themselves to be enslaved? Why did we not resist or have the courage to die
rather than submit to slavery?
The truth is, slavery is what we in the dreamwork call
pathology. And we are all enslaved to
pathology, we often lose the battle, every day in fact, and we often live doing what pathology tells us to do, in the
iron grip of our reactions, of guilt, shame, reactive rage, of our lies and
delusions.
While the Passover is mandated in the Torah-- the actual instructions
are sparse: to eat a meal, to tell the tale to the children so they will know
what the Lord did for us in Egypt. The actual Passover ceremony as we know it
is of rabbinic origin and specifically is a response to the greatest trauma in
Jewish history which was the destruction of the second Temple by the Romans in
70CE, and the subsequent exile of the Jewish people from their homeland. An
exile that lasted for two thousand years.
So here is what seems another puzzle: in response to the
greatest trauma in Jewish history, the
complete destruction of the Temple, the loss of the sacrificial worship on that
holy site, really the sense of a complete withdrawal or absence of the divine--
why would the rabbis create an elaborate ceremony to recall another trauma,
that of slavery in Egypt?
The simple answer is that to tell the tale of redemption,
how God with "a mighty arm and outstretched hand" freed the Hebrew
slaves from Egypt--- it's necessary first to tell of the bitterness and tears
of slavery. And in the ceremonial meal
there is a shamanic ritual, in which bitter herbs and salt water are
eaten-- to reinforce the teaching-- Jews
literally ingest their bitter sad story, taste it with their tongues.
But there is a deeper pattern here that has to do with the
pattern of cycling through trauma that we do in the dreamwork. The cyclical
nature of the healing process in which
trauma is re-experienced--- tasted again--
in order to once again be released or redeemed,
History repeats itself. Trauma repeats itself again and
again. The deepest understanding of this
problem came from Rabbi Isaac Luria (often known as the Ari or Lion), a 16th
century kabbalist who lived in S'fad in northern Israel. The Ari explains
that beneath the linear flow of time as
we experience it in the horizontal, is a deeper pattern of three phases of
reality which he called the tzimtzum,
the shevirat ha kelim, and the tikkun. Tztimtzum is the experience of absence
of God-- the 'withdrawal" or contraction of the divine. The shevirat
ha kelim is the shattering of the vessels-- the sense of utter destruction
which appears again and again in history. The Jewish examples of
"shattering" include the destruction of the Temple, the Inquisition,
the exile from Spain, and the Holocaust. But the truth is, history in general
is full of examples of shattering.
So is our personal life: divorce, death, loss of a beloved
,loss of a child, loss of a job or a career-- can all be experienced as utterly
shattering moments. Luria's insight is that they are reflections of one eternal
moment of shattering that was present from the beginning-- built into creation.
and wil be present until the final repair.
This repair, the tikkun olam,
the healing of the world is the third phase of reality, this is the repair of
the shattering. So in the Passover
story, the shattering experience is slavery itself, the tzimtzum is the utter
hopelessness of having been abandoned by God in the darkness of slavery-- and
the tikkun is the redemption of the slaves, and the liberation from
Egypt.
One point
Marc Bregman has made about trauma is essential here-- it is what Luria calls
the tzimtzum. What makes trauma
trauma.. rather than simply pain or suffering-- is this element of utter despair
and the feeling of the absence of God in that moment. For the soul wishes always to be with its
beloved, and yet in the very depth of the shattering, the beloved does not seem
to be present. Indeed, as Marc has
pointed out, in cases like the inquisition, where torture was used on victims,
the purpose of the torture was to get a person to completely separate from any
sense of connection to God, and this leaves a permanent mark on the soul. In
the same way in the Exodus tale, the
Pharoah deliberately embittered the slavery experience by forcing the Hebrews
to make bricks without straw.
The tzimtzum according to the Hasidim was experienced at the
personal level as psychological despair. But we can also understand the absence
of the divine as producing a trauma reaction-- it is experienced as
dissociation in all its many forms: amnesia, numbness, confusion, shock,
leaving the body.
This layer of reaction makes it exceedingly difficult to
heal the trauma. IT is necessary to pierce this layer in some way in order to
re-experience the underlying pain and terror that it covers over. And here we begin to understand the beauty of
what the rabbis were doing-- or trying to do-- with the Seder. Celebrants were literally ingesting the story-- taking it in by mouth,
chewing it, swallowing it--- in order to get below the layer of trauma reaction
to the trauma itself. For without touching down to the pain and terror of the
trauma, they could not experience the third phase of healing or redemption
(tikkun). In my view the culmination of redemption is the arrival of Elijah who
represents the male archetype or animus in our terminology. He is the one who
heals the pain between parent and child, adn who brings the promise of ultimate
redemption. Invoking his presence at the
seder means imagining an archetypal moment of encounter with a reality that is
outside of history. As Elijah enters the room, it is the emergence of the
timeless within time, the encounter with the archetypal that is usually
experienced only in dreams
So all three phases of reality that Luria describes are in
the Seder: the layer of amnesia or
forgetting which is the ordinary state of mind of traumatized people,-- and
this represents simultaneously the absence of the divine-- for people who are
numb and disconnected really can't feel the presence of God or the connection
to God and their souls. So this is the tzimtzum.
Then there's the shattering, which is the experience of the original
pain that has been hidden. We are told, that each year we are to experience the
Seder as if we too had been slaves in Egypt.
The theater of the Seder is such that the experience is to be that the
liberation is happening that very evening. IT is not history any more, it is happening
now, once again, both the oppression and the liberation. And only then can the experience of the
tikkun, the liberation occur. And the sign of that is the entry of the
archetypal figure, Elijah, who brings the promise of redemption and ultimate
healing.
The three fold experience of
absence, shattering and healing,
is explicitly cyclical. At the end of the Seder we say Next Year in
Jerusalem. That is next year perhaps we will
finally be redeemed. But the truth is we also suspect and know that the cycle
will repeat itself: the amnesia, the memory of pain and the redemption, over and
over again, year after year, until....
